The cyclic nature of grief is difficult for many to understand…one dealing with it must remember that the feelings of each of the stages of grief reappear…sadly those outside those emotions do not fully understand.
Only those who have lost someone dear can understand this pain. The temporary support by others does help but eventually we have to deal with everything, find various ways to escape from reality, let ourselves be pulled to reality by any small memory, the vacant spot left in our lives keeps haunting us ….we say time heals but it doesn’t fully…it just masks the pain…
Very heartfelt post Meenakshi ji!
Absolutely agree with this awesome poem, Meenakshi and yes all memories come back and remain and it is so difficult to move on at those times. Beautiful poem dear.
Yes and a little darling wants that all must play with him and not a fussy child nor much crying too. Great to have him when my daughter brings him home and my mother in law is every day asking when Zahan will come, she loves him.
Thank You so much. I’m fine though still sibling loss I guess could never be healed. Only hope to meet them after death is only light that keeps us going.
The cyclic nature of grief is difficult for many to understand…one dealing with it must remember that the feelings of each of the stages of grief reappear…sadly those outside those emotions do not fully understand.
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That’s true only those dealing with it could understand. Thank You for understanding.
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Only those who have lost someone dear can understand this pain. The temporary support by others does help but eventually we have to deal with everything, find various ways to escape from reality, let ourselves be pulled to reality by any small memory, the vacant spot left in our lives keeps haunting us ….we say time heals but it doesn’t fully…it just masks the pain…
Very heartfelt post Meenakshi ji!
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You describe it perfectly! Thank you for your kind words Sifar! It means a lot!
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You are wc 🙂
How are you doing Meenakshi ji?
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Truth spoken..hope you are alright
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Thank You! Yea I’m fine! Thanks for your kindness!
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Absolutely agree with this awesome poem, Meenakshi and yes all memories come back and remain and it is so difficult to move on at those times. Beautiful poem dear.
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Thank you Kamal! Good to read your thoughts!
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Welcome Meenakshi. Could u download my book from Amazon
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Yes dear, it is in my collection now 🙂
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Thanks dear Meenakshi. How are you all good and your family.
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All good Kamal! How is your grandson?
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He is growing big now has completed seven months today
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Wow! Congratulations granny 🙂
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Thanks dear Meenakshi
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See your what’s app Meenakshi
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Sure
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Very cute and making noises like anything.
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I can imagine. So so happy for you ❤🙂
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Yes and a little darling wants that all must play with him and not a fussy child nor much crying too. Great to have him when my daughter brings him home and my mother in law is every day asking when Zahan will come, she loves him.
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Zahan such an enchanting name 😘
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Yes means Gift of God
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So true! Wonderfully penned!!
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Thank You Kranti!
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This is brilliantly written! Beautiful!❤️
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Thank You so much!
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It is indeed a very long process how these emotions keep moving through us and take their time. Beautiful to read from you Meenakshi.
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Thank You Pragal! Appreciate how you understand this.
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Pushing the writing bar higher and every word is profound, impact the senses. This poetry is one of your best M!
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Thank you so much Vishal!
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Beautiful flow of words 😍
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Thank you Jyo!
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A beautiful garland of words.
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Thank you so much 🙏
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It is difficult to deal with the pain of loss. This was an amazing write, beautifully and powerfully written.
Hope you are well.
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Thank You so much. I’m fine though still sibling loss I guess could never be healed. Only hope to meet them after death is only light that keeps us going.
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